Who is the high incidence of extramarital affairs?
With extra-marital affairs and extra-marital sex increasing today, it is necessary for us to carry out discussions and exchanges on this phenomenon at different levels.
Research data at home and abroad have consistently shown that men and women have different motives and methods for generating extramarital affairs, but because there are differences in personality characteristics and personal and social capital, different people have extramarital affairs.There are also differences in opportunities.
In this issue, we have conducted detailed and accurate questionnaire surveys and in-depth analyses of the mentality of men and women. We have verified experts and reviewed some information. It cannot be said that it has been analyzed and analyzed for the people who are most prone to extramarital affairs.real.
Approaching men, we analyzed the characteristics of divorce caused by extramarital affairs and third-party involvement, and found that the main characteristics are as follows: first, the majority of the plaintiffs were women, accounting for more than 60%; second, in the case of extramarital affairsAmong the divorced people, 51% have premarital sex; third, the majority of the third parties are unmarried young people, accounting for 46%, married 39%, and divorced or widowed 15%;, Extra-marital affairs are mostly related to colleagues, accounting for 54%, plus the former classmates, teachers and students or neighbors accounted for 65%; Fifth, the extra-marital affairs are dominated by the wrong side, the new and the old, accounting for 47%;The third party took the initiative to account for 13%, and the relationship between each other accounted for 6%.
Regarding the analysis and summary of the research, the following men are easier or more likely to have extramarital affairs (but not that these people will definitely have an affair).
1. Rich, powerful men, their money and part of them will be especially favored by young and beautiful women.
2. Men who are dissatisfied with their wives.
If they are dissatisfied with the relationship between the couple or the wife’s appearance, personality, sex life, etc., they are likely to seek compensation outside the family.
3, romantic “Don Juan” and love field players.
Most of them play life, play with women in the palm of their hands, lack a sense of responsibility, and rarely have true love.
4. The boss or supervisor of the company.
They often have the opportunity to meet some young women who deserve them or actively pursue them.
5. A man in his forties or forties.
At this time, men’s general career was successful, they had a lot of money, and suddenly they were stable and responsible, and their social experience was rich, so they became the fantasy goals of many young women.
But in the face of the “wife” in the family, and their long-term oppressed sex, they are likely to be involved in extramarital affairs.
6. Males whose wives are in pregnancy and pregnancy may be unable to reorganize and seduce.
7. There are men who are “feminist” at home.
In some parts of modern society and individual families, strong women are rampant.
A man who meets such a wife has no hierarchy and no majesty, so he is likely to find a “gentle lamb” and talk about compensation to maintain psychological balance.
8. Men who have suffered unfortunate encounters such as unemployment or demotion, they will seek trust or release through extramarital affairs.
9. Men seeking romance or excitement.
10. White-collar men.
11. Men who travel frequently or permanently.
12. Pre-marital sex experienced men.
13. Some people in the circle of friends have affair men.
14. Men whose parents have had an affair.
Studies by foreign scholars have found that most of the parents or ancestors of ex-marital affairs have experienced ex-marital affairs, so they have a genetic symbol of affair.
It does not mean physiological inheritance or psychological inheritance.
According to analysis, it is mainly due to retaliation or compensation from previous generations.
Farsighted women and men are heterosexual and common.
Therefore, the above two are both different and the same.
Combining the views of some scholars and the author’s personal analysis, women are more prone to having an affair. There are mainly the following: 1. Women who are dissatisfied with the feelings of husband and wife and cannot get the care and understanding of the husband.
2. Women who are dissatisfied with their sex life will also seek compensation through affair.
3. Women who are dissatisfied with their husband or have no love.
4. Modern professional women.
Western scholars have found that there is a considerable correlation between work and affair, and the office is the place most likely to have extramarital affairs.
In 1986, a survey conducted by New Women magazine pointed out that 57% of working women knew others at work.
5, engaged in male-dominated industries, such as doctors, lawyers, drivers, film workers, business operators, architects, scientists, advertising salespersons, managers, etc.They have opportunities to meet good men, and there are also opportunities for men to pursue.
6, young wife.
In 1975, foreign experts pointed out that among all age groups, the highest proportion of affair was women between the ages of 26 and 30.
In 1983, the “American Spouse” survey also found that the most vulnerable to extramarital affairs are young women.
Recent surveys indicate that the percentage of derailed women in their 20s is even higher than that of men of the same age.
A survey conducted by the United States on extramarital affairs in 1988 found that modern young women betray their husbands faster than ever before.
For example, before 1960, women who got married had an affair for the first time after an average of 14 and a half years, while modern women began having extramarital affairs only 5 years ago.
7. Middle-aged women in their 30s and 40s, that is, women who are married for 2-3 years and about 10 years.
According to a survey conducted by relevant Oriental experts on more than 2,000 women on affair, the average age at which women have an extramarital affair is 30 years old. This result is basically the same as the survey results caused by Western countries such as the American Marriage and Family AssociationThe average age at which women were found having an affair was 31 years.
8. Women with rich sexual experience before marriage.
Experts have found that there is a close relationship between premarital sex and extramarital affairs.
Usually, the more sexual experiences you have before marriage, the better the chance of having an affair after marriage.
9. Women with higher education than their husbands.
Experts have found that women who are more educated than their husbands often have more than one affair, except for a high proportion of affair.
However, experts also pointed out that the rate of affair among women with higher education has been increasing at the same time.
10. Women in social role playing or living environment changes.
For example, the chances of having an affair are greatly increased when some housewives take up a job.
11. Women whose parents died soon.
12. Women with friends having an affair.
13. Women whose parents have an affair.
14, couples with fewer and more women.
15. Women who seek romance and novelty.